‘What My Marriage To Funke Akindele Has Taught Me’ – JJC

Funke Akindele and Husband, JJC Skillz

Nigerian producer, JJC Skillz has shared some personal informations about his marriage to ace actress Funke Akindele.

JJC, in an interview, opened up on his marriage to the mother of his kids, saying he has learnt a couple of things.

In his words;

“The moment I met Funke Akindele, I knew she was going to be my wife,” he said. “I told her that straight away the first time we met, but she didn’t believe me. Here we are today as one beautiful family.”

“Marriage to Funke has taught me to be patient. I needed to be patient and I have learned that a lot. Men and women are not from the same planet, but we both live on earth. A happy wife is a happy life.”

On how he felt welcoming a set of twin boys recently, he said; “Since the birth of the twins, everything has been double-double for us. My music business is going well. I have a complete beautiful family and everything is going smoothly for us.”

As a lady, would you propose marriage to a guy?

It is not new that the lifelong institution called marriage has always witnessed men proposing to ladies; but the latest trend in the society is moving away from the age-long tradition as women are taking the bull by the horns to propose to their male partners. This might not seem strange to many although it goes against the convention backed by religious practice in this part of the world that a man would leave his parents to cleave to a woman and they shall become one. Proposing marriage is an open request from the men to women, it ordinarily involves the man begging for an affirmation or negation as to a new lease of life together. However, with the recent trend of women proposing marriage, would you as a lady propose marriage to a guy?

On WhatsApp Conversation, these are what those who joined the conversation and our expert have to say on the issue:

Anita Nwosu

I will not try such but if he refuses to propose then I can give signs that I want to be proposed to.

Rachel Oladiran

I won’t. He is my fiancé and I believe he will propose at some point.  If he doesn’t, it might be because he doesn’t want me or something. So, I will rather wait for him to propose.

Comfort Abolade

I can’t make such move. I can only do that if I am a foreigner.

Annette Chikodi

Never. I like ring but that does not mean I’ve to propose to a man to get one. Believe me, and I love myself too much to do that.

Balikis Jimoh

Yes, I can.  If the feelings are mutual and obvious and I realised that if I don’t get married to him, I would be a loser at the end. It doesn’t matter who proposes. As far as there’s love, trust and understanding, we’re good to go.

Debbie Ochogwu

I will do it but only because I want to. Humanly speaking, I always do whatever I want to do without much regards to societal norms.

Favour Uka

I don’t think I would, Well, I believe I’m to be chased; sought after and the proposal is part of this process. Proverbs 18:22 ‘He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the Lord”

Margret Bolaji

As a lady I can’t propose to a guy. It’s not ideal for a lady to propose to a guy (in culture) we all know it might go wrong.

Blessing Owuh

Well, I won’t really propose marriage to him directly. What I will do is to ask him if he is ready or willing to marry me.  If his response is positive, we go on, if otherwise, then I have to end the relationship.

Similoluwa Ayeleke

I won’t like to propose to a guy because the guy will be thinking that I might be feeling that he is not capable enough which will eventually result to me not enjoying my marriage as a result of that.

Busola Sebiotimo

I won’t. I’m a woman. I’m to be pursued. When I start doing the pursuing, something is wrong. I cannot love my man more than he loves me so I shouldn’t be more eager to marry him by proposing marriage to him.

Happiness Udoh

As Nigerians, our culture doesn’t permit that; and the Bible says, “that the man will leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife,” not the woman doing such! This means that a woman isn’t supposed to propose to a man.  But in a case where a woman does that, it means that she’s so desperate to settle down with the man.

Expert Speaks

Kemi Akinbobola, a marriage and relationship counsellor is our expert on this issue.

A lady who proposes marriage to a man has lost her self-worth because the man would first call her names when things begin to go sour. Such a lady will never be good for a man who is not ready for commitment. Ladies are precious jewels that should be cherished and sought after, not the other way around.  And they should note that a man can never achieve his complete purpose in life without them. Thus, a lady proposing marriage to a guy should be likened to a jewel handed over to a pig, it can never know the value. It is not a crime when a lady asks the question on what next? When the relationship is going forever without a focus.  Also, not to forget that marriage is a two-way thing, the lady and the guy.  A guy who fails to propose is not ready due to some reasons best known to him. And as such, communication would go a long way to put an end to unending questions begging for answers. When a lady proposes, she has put such a guy in a tight and unpleasant corner and would feel forced to accept something he is not prepared for especially if he is a ‘nice guy’ and does not want to turn her down. Marriage is a grounded institution with processes that should be followed to the letter. A miss in those processes could cause a life-long pain and regret. In my view, the dog should always go after the bone and never the bone after the dog.

10 years after, D’banj electrifies at the Koko concert in London

Afrobeats legend, D’banj last weekend gave his fans their money’s worth by
shutting down the O2 Academy Brixton, in London during the 10th edition of
the Koko Concert with his energetic moves and interaction with the audience.

It was a beauty to behold a much-diversified audience, whose rallying point
was their love for the Koko Master. D’banj announced he and his wife are
expecting a baby boy before performing a snippet of his new track “Restore
me” featuring the amazing singer-songwriter Stacey Barth (brown skin girl). He
then went on to explain why the song is so meaningful to him.

This comes after D’Banj’s electrifying performance at Afronation 2019. The
Koko Concert thrilled fans with a string of hit. The concert, according to
reports, was an arresting experience as D’banj thrilled fans and lovers with his
magnetic performances. And it was nothing short of what we expected from
“The Entertainer”!
Sponsored by Made and LiveNation, the concert was filled with spectacular on-
stage antics that kept the audience locked all night long. Performing acts at
the Koko Concert in London were Falz, Runtown, Sneakbo, Slimcase Dizzy,
Lorane Lionheart, Sona, SK, Tomi Agape, Mr. Ltee among other artistes.

Nigerians React As Khafi, Omashola Share Comprising Position (Photo)

Nigerians have taken to Twitter to react to the compromising sitting position of BBNaija housemates, Khafi and Omashola in the garden.

BBNaija housemates, Khafi and her lover, Gedoni

Our correspondent recalls the current Head of House had confided in the fellow male housemate that she would be happy if her evicted love interest, Gedoni proposes to her with a ring outside the house.

Well, it seems the duo have also formed a strong bond which has left many confused, considering the fact that it is barely one-week since Khafi’s lover left the reality show.

Khafi, who could not bear the heart-break of the fashion designer’s eviction, was seen severally suckling and brooding as she continues to remember the fun memories they once shared under the duvet.

Warri pikin, Omashola appears to be helping get over it by providing her comfort on his laps.

See the picture and some reactions below:

Nigerians React As Khafi, Omashola Share Comprising Position (Photo)

Nigerians have taken to Twitter to react to the compromising sitting position of BBNaija housemates, Khafi and Omashola in the garden.

BBNaija housemates, Khafi and her lover, Gedoni

Our correspondent recalls the current Head of House had confided in the fellow male housemate that she would be happy if her evicted love interest, Gedoni proposes to her with a ring outside the house.

Well, it seems the duo have also formed a strong bond which has left many confused, considering the fact that it is barely one-week since Khafi’s lover left the reality show.

Khafi, who could not bear the heart-break of the fashion designer’s eviction, was seen severally suckling and brooding as she continues to remember the fun memories they once shared under the duvet.

Warri pikin, Omashola appears to be helping get over it by providing her comfort on his laps.

See the picture and some reactions below:

Nigerians React As Khafi, Omashola Share Comprising Position (Photo)

Nigerians have taken to Twitter to react to the compromising sitting position of BBNaija housemates, Khafi and Omashola in the garden.

BBNaija housemates, Khafi and her lover, Gedoni

Our correspondent recalls the current Head of House had confided in the fellow male housemate that she would be happy if her evicted love interest, Gedoni proposes to her with a ring outside the house.

Well, it seems the duo have also formed a strong bond which has left many confused, considering the fact that it is barely one-week since Khafi’s lover left the reality show.

Khafi, who could not bear the heart-break of the fashion designer’s eviction, was seen severally suckling and brooding as she continues to remember the fun memories they once shared under the duvet.

Warri pikin, Omashola appears to be helping get over it by providing her comfort on his laps.

See the picture and some reactions below:

Nigerians React As Khafi, Omashola Share Comprising Position (Photo)

Nigerians have taken to Twitter to react to the compromising sitting position of BBNaija housemates, Khafi and Omashola in the garden.

BBNaija housemates, Khafi and her lover, Gedoni

Our correspondent recalls the current Head of House had confided in the fellow male housemate that she would be happy if her evicted love interest, Gedoni proposes to her with a ring outside the house.

Well, it seems the duo have also formed a strong bond which has left many confused, considering the fact that it is barely one-week since Khafi’s lover left the reality show.

Khafi, who could not bear the heart-break of the fashion designer’s eviction, was seen severally suckling and brooding as she continues to remember the fun memories they once shared under the duvet.

Warri pikin, Omashola appears to be helping get over it by providing her comfort on his laps.

See the picture and some reactions below:

Sensational singer Waje announces first ever concert ‘RED VELVET’

Nigerian female singer, Aituaje Iruobe popularly known as Waje, has announced the date for her much anticipated concert, which will double with her album launch “Red Velvet”.

The event which was put together after much consultation and popular demand from Waje’s fans across Nigeria is scheduled to hold on September 1st, 2019 at the Shell Hall Muson Centre, Onikan, Lagos.

The organisers of the event revealed that, the concert will showcase the singer’s latest R&B album ‘Red Velvet’, where also the name of the event was culled from.

They said “With the concert, Waje delves into familiar territory to explore the passionate themes from the album with a distinctively new burlesque story-telling style. Attendees can expect a full-blown bedroom musical from sensual, soulful lovelorn ballads to fierce energetic affirmations.

The event which promises to be mind-blowing will feature Johnny Drille and other Nigerian stars which include MI, Adekunle Gold, Chike and Good girl LA amongst others.

The show will be anchored by the ever interesting comedian and singer, Chigul.

Waje revealed on her Instagram page that the event is dream come through for her, as she has always wanted to organise her own event.

She said “I have wanted to do this for a long time, to sing my truth to the world, my way. My goal has been to have a very intimate, passionate experience with you! The stars have aligned and its finally time! Please join me.”

Just In: US new visa fees to remain until…

The new US visa fee for Nigerians will remain for now, it has been learnt.

The Minister of Interior, Rauf Aregbesola, had announced reduced visa fees for Americans apparently for reciprocity from the US authorities.

But the US embassy in Abuja said it was still awaiting official communication from its Nigerian counterpart before consideration of the next move.

Details shortly…

‘What I Will Do When My Daughter Finds The One’ – Waje

Nigerian singer, Waje has revealed just how she would act when her daughter, Emerald Iruobe, finds love in the nearest future.

The talented singer, who recently released a new song, which saw her daughter playing the love interest of Johnny Drille wrote: “I’m not sure I can ever prepare for the day my emerald will say “mum I’ve MET THE ONE".

This is coming after the singer made headlines a while back, saying she will be retiring from music as she is not getting just as much as she is investing in her career.

4 Things To Avoid In A Work Environment

The work environment is meant to be relaxing in such a way that
you are able to perform mental tasks without your freedom being
stifled or feeling mentally drained unnecessarily . There are some
things that should be avoided in a work environment so as to have
a smooth work experience. Below are some of the “ don ’t” in the
office environment .

Coming late
Some times, it is okay to get late to work, however, when it
becomes too often , it can have negative impacts . When you keep
going late to work, it will affect your productivity and efficiency
because you will always rush things you should have done with
patience .

Gossips
Gossip is not only limited to women, men also involve themselves
in office gossips . This should be avoided at all cost . These habits
can have serious negative repercussions for your company . Do not
waste your precious time in gossips ; otherwise you will never be
able to achieve your targets .

Poor relationship
Having a poor relationship with your colleagues , workers or
bosses will affect your output . If you keep fighting with your co-
workers and managers all the time , it will only result in bad things
for both the employees and employers .You need to work together
as a team with your employers and employees so as to have a
rewarding output . Also, employers should not make work place
difficult for employees by making rules without considering the
employees , this will affect the morale of the employees and in
result, affect the outputs .

Breaks
It is important that you take breaks in between work, anyone can
break down from excess stress . According to World Health
Organization report , “ sedentary lifestyle at the workplace and
home can take you one- step closer to death . It is highly
recommended that you take frequent short breaks to keep yourself
energized. Get up from your desk every now and then and walk
around the office to stay healthy ” .
So while focusing on work, always put these points in mind .

Pregnant BamBam And Teddy A’s Introduction To Hold On Saturday

According to LIB, Big Brother Naija reality TV stars, Tope Adenibuyan alias Teddy A and Bamike Olawunmi, better known as BamBam, will begin their marriage rites on Saturday.

BBNaija couple, Teddy A and BamBam

The introduction ceremony of the couple will led at tbe bride’s father’s house in Lagos.

The report also claims that Bambam is reportedly pregnant.

The couple, who met in the Big Brother “Double Wahala” edition, continued their relationship.

The couple are the only ones with an intact relationship outside the house and they have decided taking it to the alter.

Our correspondent recalls th news of their engagement broke on August 4th.

Watch the video of their engagement below:

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Fuji Icon Kollington Ayinla Loses His Wife

Kollington Ayinla And Wife

Fuji music veteran, General Kollington Ayinla, is bereaved as a new report has confirmed that the icon just lost his wife.

According to reports, Lady Olabode Sulu-Ilori, 58, died at her family house in Agege, Lagos, on Tuesday.

The deceased who was a Christian businesswoman bore a child for General Kollington Ayinla.

According to family sources, funeral arrangements have been made at the RCCG Amazing Grace zonal headquarters, Oke-Koto, Agege, while reception holds at Consort Hall, Ipaja Road, Agege, Lagos.

I Have 3 Kids, I Can’t Help Every One-Ubi Franklin

Triple MG Boss, Ubi Franklin

Triple mg record boss, Ubi Franklin, has stated that he can’t help everybody simply because he has three kids and other things to attend to in life.

He made the comment after a fan criticized him following a video he shared on his Instagram page wherein he said ”do not burn bridges, you may need that bridge.”

The fan while commenting said he was once directed by his dad to meet the media mogul for help but he turned him down.

Reacting to this, Ubi Franklin said the fan sounded so entitled and as such promised to block him

The exchange between them:

He then went further by following up with the post below.

What he followed up with:

View this post on Instagram

I can’t help everyone
and if you want to ask for help, ask nicely.

A post shared by Mr ubifranklintriplemg (@ubifranklintriplemg) on Aug 29, 2019 

Experts Seek Deregulation of Downstream Sector

 In other to pave way for accelerated growth of the oil and gas sector, the Managing director of Financial Derivatives Company Ltd, Bismarck Rewane has called on  government to urgently deregulate the downstream sector.

Making this announcement yesterday during an interactive section with our correspondent, in Lagos Rewane said,  "on the challenges facing local oil companies listed on the Nigeria Stock Exchange is strangulating the sector, noting that deregulation would  would open up the market".

"The imposition of a price ceiling on petroleum products which affect the margins of the operators will not attract the volume of investments required to scale up their operations and explore the opportunities in the value chain of the industry".

“A factor affecting the operators is that they do not have control of the pricing of their products, which shouldn’t be as they are at the mercy of others”, he added.

The financial expert admitted that subsidy as a social policy requires sensitive management. He, however, said the government must make up its mind to take the bull by the horn to free the industry of its current strangulation.

In his words, the "International Monetary Fund (IMF) had recently urged Nigeria and other countries subsidizing fossil fuel to put an end to it, noting that the policy benefits the rich more than the poor.

Though the IMF, which stated this in a blog post titled: ‘Fuel for Thought: Ditch the Subsidies’ did not name any country, it is believed that the message was directed to countries like Nigeria whose fuel subsidy has become an avenue for siphoning public resources.

A recent World Bank report said Nigeria spent N731 billion to subsidise petrol consumption last year.

He further implored  Nigeria’s government to emulate other countries who have deregulated their downstream sectors if it hopes to reposition the industry to truly serve as growth catalyst.

Also at the interactive section was the face of the Chairman of the Major Oil Marketers Association of Nigeria (MOMAN), Mr.Tunji Oyebamiji,  called for the liberalization of the sector to make it attractive for investments.

He said: “Well, we are a competitive industry. We believe in competition. We believe that when you give players in the industry a free hand to go into the market and to compete effectively, it brings out the best in them.

“Many of our facilities are out-dated and getting older. We believe that government needs to free up the industry just like it has done in so many other industries. We have seen the massive development in sectors that have witnessed deregulation which can be replicated in Nigeria," he added.

BBNaija: Real reason I put up Cindy, saved Omashola– Ike

Big brother Naija, BBNaija housemate, Ike yesterday revealed real reason
he saved fellow housemate Omashola from possible eviction this week.
Our correspondent recalls that Omashola was nominated alongside Esther, Tacha, Sir Dee, Venita, and Cindy.

The housemates were nominated after an arena game challenge between two
groups, the Enigma and the Legends which had former team emerge as the
winner.
Ike who has the Veto power saved Omashola and replaced him with Cindy.
Ike’s decision did not go down well with some housemates who felt he would
have saved Tacha or Frodd.
But Ike speaking to Biggie during his diary session said he saved Omashola
and not any other housemate as expected because he helped him stay longer
in the house.
“I saved Omashola because he helped me stay longer in the house.
“From the first week about the stolen coin we have had a connection so I just
thought to save him.
“Plus I dnt know Cindy as much as I know other housemates in my team.”

Most Searched 2019 BBNaija’s Housemates On Google (Check Out)

According to reports from Google on Wednesday, Mercy, Tacha, Mike, Ike and Seyiwere the most searched Big Brother Naija Season 4 contestants on the Google search.

Controversial BBNaija housemate, Tacha

The West Africa Regional Communication and Public Relations Manager, Taiwo Kola-Ogunlade, made this revelation.

The show that began on the 30th of June has been on air for eight weeks and Google has released the list of the five most searched housemates.

”According to Google Search, they are five top trending Big Brother Naija 2019: Pepper Dem housemates since the commencement of the competition on 30 June 2019.

”The list is based on top search performance on Google.

‘The fourth season of Big Brother Naija, known as “Big Brother Naija 2019: Pepper Dem”, has taken Nigeria by storm,” he said.

He said that the search was as follows: Mercy, a 26-year-old video vixen and businesswoman based in Lagos loves cooking, swimming, travelling and dancing.

BBNaija gangsta couple, Mercy and Ike

Her on-screen relationship with fellow contestant Ike, as well as her fashion sense and good looks, keep Big Brother Naija fans wanting more and searching for her online.

Kola-Ogunlade said that Mercy is the most-searched Big Brother Naija 2019: Pepper Dem contestant on Google.

Following closely is Tasha, who hails from Rivers State; this 23-year-old social media sensation loves to show herself to the world and the Big Brother Naija stage is the ideal platform.

The businesswoman has grown her popularity on social media through the show and is the second most-searched Big Brother Naija 2019.

”Her stern character adds to the excitement of the reality show.

Mike Edwards stunned Big Brother Naija 2019: Pepper Dem fans when it was revealed that he was married.

”He is also a CEO and an athlete with a resilient spirit, Founder of the first Black-owned cigar brand in the United Kingdom.

Kola-Ogunlade says Mike has been able to position himself as a guru in the Big Brother Naija house and his accent has made quite an impression on the audience.

BBNaija Housemates Mike and Seyi

Mike is number 3 on the list of most-searched Big Brother Naija 2019: Pepper Dem contestants on Google.

Kola-Ogunlade said that Seyi, popularly referred to as the grandson of Awolowo, has indeed made his mark in the Big Brother Naija 2019.

From being head-of-house to having a heated argument with Ike at one point, he has a strong personality that has stood out since day one of the show.

The bubbly entrepreneur is also a medical doctor who has stated his commitment to his journey of self-acceptance, his girlfriend and his belief.

The 26-year-old Steve Ikechukwu Onyema, originally from Imo State, is said to be the look-alike of Marvel’s Black Panther actor, Michael B. Jordan.

His relationship with fellow housemate, Mercy, among other activities in the house, has made him one of the contestants to watch out for.

He ranks the fifth position among the top searched Big Brother Naija 2019: Pepper Dem housemates according to Google Search.