We tend to look up to celebrities and their love lives and hope to have ours turn out just like theirs . Why this is so can only be tied to the fact that we are human beings and it is just a common nature to behave this way .
But , from all observations , what we see on social media shared by these celebrities are just the surface of what they actually go through; relationships are not a bed of roses.
Ideally, we ought to create relationship goals of our own , as realistic as possible that can help shape how our love lives should pan out.
One of these many important goals you should set for your relationship is first making it a priority. At this point , you have become two and not just one; in other words, you are not just catering to the physical ; emotional [and otherwise] needs of just yourself but that of another person too .
Secondly, spending one- on - one time together to reconnect is another very important goal you need to set and actively make sure it is achieved . The most important element of this connection time is that you are fully present for each other . This means you aren’t looking at your phone , doing a task , or watching television .
You are fully focused on each other .
This is not the time to work through conflict or discuss the relationship . It is a time for talking , sharing, embracing , and simply enjoying each other ’s company . Look in each other ’s eyes .
Hold hands . Listen attentively as the other is talking .
Last , but not the least , have a fun- timetable . With work and any
other thing eating up your time , infuse dinner dates , movie dates ,
beach outings etc , anything to spice up your relationship in an
exciting way .
So before you scream ‘ Goals’ verbally [in the comment sections of your most stalked celebrity couple ] or orally, have a look at your relationship and tick off what has been achieved so far.
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